I posted last time that our youngest will be attending a new school in a few days. I shared some ideas about how we have prepared her for her new school. Now what about that first day? How can we, the parents, make the start as smooth as possible for our child(ren)? Below are 5 ideas that I think will help you (and me, too!).
1. Talk to your child(ren) about the first day. Does your child want to be taken to the classroom or just to the front door? A younger child will probably want to be taken to the classroom. An older child may prefer you be out of sight that first day and most likely everyday! Talk to your child and make a plan, but be prepared for a quick change of mind that morning. First day fears could take over.4. Prepare a little surprise for lunch or snack. Write a note on a post-it simply saying, “We love you!” or “Hope you are having a great day!” You could also wrap their favorite snack up like a present. Here’s what Jamie Oliver (!) suggests: carve a message into the banana peel. The words become darker with time. Anything to bring a little smile to their face!
5. Don’t stay too long. What I mean by this is, don’t stay in or near the classroom very long. I know some kids will cry and cling, but the best thing is for the parent to kiss the child, tell them they love him/her and will be back after school, and then walk out. Leave. Don’t stand in the hallway or anywhere your child can see you. This will only upset your child more. Usually, after about 15 minutes or so, they will become engaged in an activity and the tears will stop. If you are worried, you can always go to a nearby coffee shop with some friends. The school has your phone number, so if there is a real problem they will call you.
Okay, your turn. Do you have any other ideas? I’d love to read them. Please share in the comments below.
*photo by flickr
Another idea I’ve heard is that if your child has older siblings, taking them to the oldest’s school helps alot with transitioning as well. This is kind of like your second point. Great tips!
(I was a TCK – love it! What a great experience for your kids).
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Thanks so much for stopping by! Great idea about taking your child to the older sibling’s school. Having an older sibling in school sure can help reduce the fear…it has helped my daughter for sure! And thanks for that dental website. I bookmarked that website for sure!
Celebrate the accomplishments! It’s the end of day two for us, and both missed some of the problems given on tests. However, we found the ones they did right and emphasized those. It took only a minute for the oldest to look at the missed problem and go “I know the answer!” Confidence saved, and learning achieved! Wish all parenting was that easy . . .
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